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Wednesday, August 08 2018

As a “middle-aged” man, I have been under the leadership of many people.  In addition, I have been observant of leaders.  A philosophy that I have adopted since I was a teenager was to watch leaders and take on qualities that I deem good leadership while shunning the characteristics of poor leadership.  

This does not have to be a long blog, but I want to list some qualities that I have observed as good characteristics of leadership:

  • Prayerful
  • Always a student/growing
  • Good communications
  • Transparent
  • Willing to own mistakes and apologize
  • Work to help build others despite their current weaknesses (see the potential in people)
  • Protect your subordinates
  • See the best in people
  • Be decisive and stick to the decision
  • Know that there are two sides to every story
  • A listener

There are some things that I do not like in leaders:

  • Political (this means playing politics, not having political opinions)
  • Vengeful
  • Indecisive (don’t stick your head in the sand either)
  • Making decisions based on little information
  • Lacking common sense
  • Not willing to apologize
  • Micromanaging
  • Thinking your opinion is the only opinion

What kind of leader so you want to be?  Look around and adopt the good characteristics of great leaders.  Learn from bad leaders by shunning their poor leadership characteristics.  This does not mean that you only look at people that have “position” because their rank may have not been earned but they may have achieved their spot because of who they are or know.  Understand that some leaders may be a leader of one or informal leaders that influence from the bottom up.  Learn from the best leaders!

Be blessed!

Posted by: Pastor Robert P. Eaby, Jr. AT 12:48 pm   |  Permalink   |  Email
Friday, August 03 2018

Much of the ministerial training that I have has come my dad.  My dad has never preached at a conference to thousands (that I know of), but he did establish a fantastic and anointed Apostolic church.  His spiritual legacy is amazing having his grandkids and children serving God.  There are three ministers including two pastors in his immediate family.  Furthermore, he was a legend as a leader and a fireman during a 27 year career.  He has earned two gold medals for valor and has done things that most just read about, but there is one thing that I have learned from him that has stuck with me in everything that I do.  He has taught me to be ethical.

As a student, I learned and studied ethics including taking an entire class on the subject.  Ethics has been defined many ways, but it is simply doing the right thing.  Furthermore, it is doing the thing that is most correct when there are two correct answers.  In the fire service (yes, I was a firefighter/paramedic), someone once said to “do right in the do right zone”.  It is a simple but amazing saying that are words to live by.

My questions that I used to title this blog post is obviously provocative.  As Christians, we should want to do the right thing and our question to ourselves when we act upon somehting is, “Am I doing the right thing?”  More importantly, are we treating people as Jesus would treat others?  Are we being forgiving or seeking revenge?  Are we being humble or proud?  The questions are infinate, but our actions toward each other should be filtered through the Bible.  

As leaders, ethics should be a standard that should not be crossed.  Yes, we will make mistakes, but own them and move on.  Communicate with others in a respectful way to build trust.  Ethics does not include revenge or silence.  It does include helping where help is needed.  Are you working to build or destroy?  The church is not immune to not doing the right thing, therefore we should be deliberate and prayerful in our decision making.  We need to be careful to not have notches on our gun, if you will, marking the people that we have destroyed.  Love one another is a commandment.  

Ethics are not dead in the church, but we need to be sure that we take responsibility that we are ethical.  We as the church should love and communicate while building lives.  

Posted by: Pastor Robert P. Eaby, Jr. AT 02:33 pm   |  Permalink   |  Email
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